I got married last month
Thank you, thank you. I'm actually still surprised that I got so lucky in the love dept. I was a late bloomer in all ways but the physical.
Anyway, I'm dealing with the whole name-change process. I put that whole issue on the back burner, subconcsiously speaking, in the months before the wedding. It was just too weird, to think of myself as Mrs. Somebody. Most guys will never know how odd it is to spend the first almost-30 years of your life with one last name, then suddenly using a new one. It makes me want to giggle when people call me by my married name. I guess I'll get used to it.
I considered keeping my maiden name, and as far as Social Security is concerned I use both, but ultimately I decided that it would be weird for the kids if we had 2 different names. The hell with hyphenation or making up a new name from the letters of both our names; I did not want to buy my unborn children 18 +years of merciless teasing.
I also had to change my email address. My dad has been an AOL subscriber since I was in HS, now he's decided to cancel the account, meaning my sister and I must make new arrangements. Maybe that's why I write, as a way to keep in touch with my identity no matter what I call myself, online or off.
